Good morning!
I've been making myself more available for connecting with friends lately. No agenda, just expressing my gratitude and interest. There are some that have busy lives which is totally understandable. For me, my priorities are around my family. That's my core. And their needs and our relationship get first dibs.
It's funny, with the kids as teens now, how I realize that it is THIS time above most that they need that "in the moment" presence the most. I know a demanding toddler can be hard to ignore at times, but you could put a toy in front of them or grass under their feet and they were entertained and grateful with joy.
Now...? The relationship, and you being in it, matters most. At least in our family. And I will admit, it was hard for me to adjust at first. I just had to answer questions about where this or that was and "half-listen" to stories about pokemon LOL. Now they want the feedback, the engagement, the mindful responses...and I (me) have to be present for it. It's good! I am grateful for the opportunity of deepening my core relationships.....and then choosing to share this depth with those around me.
This weekend was a beautiful example with a dear friend and artist..... And I choose to open up for more of those opportunities. PM me if you would like to connect And enjoy a beautiful, spring day
No comments:
Post a Comment