I'm a bad mom.

 

Good mawning!

"I'm a bad mom."

A thought glinted past my mind as I made sure that myself and my hubby had dinner last night.

And we had a busy day of cleaning as well.

But... as a mom who s #raisingmen and helping them to hold value...not only for how they show up and contribute to society...but how they show up and contribute to nurturing their value and self-care. And that includes making a meal for themselves OVER playing computer games with friends.

Sometimes..."we" have a tendency to put the work, the activities, the social commitments, the expectations, the busyness of life before our own well-being and needs. We'll put off eating or eating well, personal care, movement or working out, even our own joy in order to look like we aren't "neglecting" the expectations others hold to or for or even OVER us, so we appear to be meeting what they expect our life to look like.

But in truth, we are neglecting our own lives when we don't look to meet even our basic, non-sexy needs so others can "feel" better about how they are showing up or not in their lives.

So ... did I look like a "lazy", selfish, "neglectful" mom? Probably. Depending on who was watching and judging. I don't know and I don't NEED to know. My hubby and I sat down to a meal together in a cleaner home...

And after, I stood with my son as he cooked, checking where his head and heart were. Because he is passionate about food. So if he doesn't want to eat or cook, something is up. And while I AM being a good mom #raisingmen, that's all I care to be focusing on. My men living and loving their lives more fully.

#thankyouGod #lifetothefull #familygoals #selfcare #value #trusttheprocess #boymom #wellbeing #mentalhealthawareness #mindset #perspective #growthmindset #betterandbetter #priorities #firstthingsfirst #badmom #momlife #SAHM #WAHM #entrepreneur #artist #encouragement

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Celebrating the Magnificent Mindset Mastermind Member: Elisa Sterling-CowanIn the realm of mindset mastery and transformative leadership, there exists a luminary whose brilliance illuminates the path for all who seek personal and professional growth. Today, we gather to celebrate the remarkable contributions of Elisa Sterling-Cowan, an extraordinary individual whose presence in our mastermind group enriches us all.

At the core of Elisa's essence lies an unwavering commitment to excellence, evident in the unparalleled care and dedication with which they serve their clients. As a mindset coach, Elisa possesses a rare gift for unlocking the full potential within each individual, guiding them towards their highest aspirations with empathy, wisdom, and boundless enthusiasm.But Elisa's impact extends far beyond her client base. Within our mastermind group, she embodies the true spirit of collaboration and generosity, lifting up her fellow members with a generosity of spirit that knows no bounds. Whether through sharing innovative ideas, offering invaluable support, or simply lending a compassionate ear, Elisa continually inspires us to strive for greatness.

Moreover, Elisa's role as a transformational speaker is nothing short of awe-inspiring. With her eloquence, passion, and profound insights, she has the power to captivate audiences and ignite within them a renewed sense of purpose and possibility. Through her words, she sparks transformation on a grand scale, leaving an indelible mark on all who have the privilege of hearing her speak.

As if her accomplishments weren't already remarkable enough, Elisa also wears the hat of a CEO with grace and aplomb. Their visionary leadership and unwavering dedication to excellence serve as a guiding light for her organization, propelling it towards ever-greater heights of success and impact.In Elisa Sterling-Cowan, we are blessed to have found not only a peerless mentor and coach but also a cherished friend and ally.

Her presence in our mastermind group infuses it with a vibrancy and energy that is truly unparalleled, and we are endlessly grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow alongside her.

So let us raise our voices in celebration of Elisa Sterling-Cowan, a shining exemplar of what it means to embody excellence, compassion, and transformative leadership. May her light continue to illuminate our paths, guiding us towards ever-greater heights of success and fulfillment.